Basically, my opinion on the matter could be rectified by a simple advice suggesting that she take some (even if only small) time for herself to interact with both her fellow Tei's and the Nals in a more relaxed, casual setting: "My lady, take some time off to interact with everyone in a more relaxed setting" (or something like that

JD
PS: PLEASE remember to keep your posts civil, I think i can speak for everyone when i say that we don't want this to devolve into another fiasco...